We broached the subject of characteristics that harsh voices urge us to look for in a partner. The first two I thought of were appearance and wealth. She was talking at the time. She stuttered for maybe two seconds. I imagined it to be her trying hard not to name those two. I feel that I came from those two. I have been made to feel ashamed of them by others. She named about seven other characteristics first, during a time in which she spoke with more difficulty than h